We had an email recently from Club Member Mary that rather shocked us. She said...
"I am very disturbed by a news report of a 4 year old being forced to write with his right hand. This thought process is archaic.
Here is a link about a 4 year old being forced to write with his right hand.
Be outraged for this child. I guess some Oklahoma educators are still using 1815 methods regarding left-handed people. Hopefully, this will not cause him to have academic problems. To me, this is a form of discrimination."
You can see the full story and a video of the news report about it using the link above, but briefly:
4 year old left-hander Zayde came home from school one day and surprised his mum Alisha, also left-handed, by writing with his right hand, not his left as normal. She asked him why and he raised his left and said "teacher says this one's bad". She sent the teacher a note asking what was going on and got a strong response. The teacher sent back a copy of an article calling left-handedness "unlucky", "evil", and "sinister" and adding for good measure that "for example, the devil is often portrayed as left-handed".

We found the original article this came from here:
https://pediatriceducation.org/2011/02/28/when-will-i-know-which-hand-she-will-use/
It looks like the article referred to is only making statements of what people have considered to be true in the past, but the teacher has totally misinterpreted it, or coloured it with her own beliefs, to think some of those things are actually TRUE now and she needs to force children to change hands and educate their parents! That is clearly a very bad thing to do and on the face of it this person has no place in the teaching profession.
Alisha couldn’t believe it. She said "It breaks my heart for him because someone actually believes that, believes my child is evil because he's left-handed, it's crazy".
She went to the school superintendent at Oakes Elementary in Okemah, Oklahoma, USA with the article but "there was no suspension of any kind. There was basically nothing done about this teacher", Alisha says, "She told them she thought I needed literature on it".
Zayde will likely be transferred to another class just two months into the school year as a result of this.
NewsChannel 4 called the school and were told the superintendent was out and were transferred us to the principal. She said she’s aware of the situation and the district is investigating then hung up before they could ask any questions.
Alisha is going to file a formal complaint with the Oklahoma Board of Education and we will try to find out what happens.
UPDATE
This story generated a huge amount of interest and you can see all the comments we received below.
The update is that this teacher had apparently done the same thing to at least one other young child and after her parents complained as well the teacher was forced to resign.
https://kfor.com/2015/09/25/oklahoma-pre-k-teacher-accused-in-left-handed-controversy-resigns/
Comments 230
I will repeat what I said some years back.
This this teacher did not know her Bible that well, as Ehud, one of the judges of Israel, called by God, was left handed. (Judges 3:15)
The Bible was not at fault here, the ignorance of the teacher was.
Anyhue, she did the same to a girl and was made to resign,
Yeah, if you WANT to teach yourself to write right handed, too, that’s great. And if you suffer some injury that leaves you unable to use your left hand, learning with the right hand is vital. BUT, forcing it, because others believe it is backwards and evil to write left handed, is just archaic, discriminatory, and actually physically/mentally harmful to many.
Little known thing there are more left handers in MENSA than righties.
I mean who want to be as common as a right hander. There are 3 of us in my immediate family, my older brother & my eldest daughter too
Always been very left handed since the time I was 8. Wab
This this teacher did not know her Bible that well, as Ehud, one of the judges of Israel, called by God, was left handed. (Judges 3:15)
Incidentally she did this to another child, (a girl), and she ended up resigning.
Home schooling !!!
The local doctor was dealing with another local lad who had a bad stammer. My cousin had a bad stammer, as did his father.
The doctor came up with a theory. He asked both boys if they were left handed. They were. They were persuaded to reveal what happened to each of them at school. My aunt and uncle we're shocked.
The doctor wrote a stern letter to the school's headmaster telling to cease the practice of forcing left handed children to use their right hand.
Reluctantly the policy change was made, and the headmaster apologized to my cousin and the other boy per the doctor's instructions.
My cousin's stammering ended within two weeks.
That a 21st century educator would take this archaic usage as fact is disturbing.
I am ambidextrous, eating and writing, using scissors and tools lefty. I toss a ball and bowl right handed, bat and play badminton or tennis with either. While I didn't keep it up, I had no problem with the bass keys of the accordion being left handed. But I noticed the other kids did have trouble. To the point, sadly, that they all dropped out of the Tuesday night band practice session and I was the only one left.
My sisters are totally left handed for everything, although my youngest sister taught herself to use a knife with her right hand so she wouldn't have to switch.
Interesting that these ignorant people want to brand the Devil as a lefty and therefore all lefties must be evil. How do they account for so many right handed criminals?
In the Bible, Ehud, who became a judge to the Israelites for about 80 years, was a left handed man of the tribe of Benjamin, He was called by God to deliver the people from the king of Moab. Being a lefty let him do the deed more easily than had he been right handed.
This tribe apparently had quite a few lefties among them. In a later chapter, it talks about 700 of the men of the Benjaminite army being slingers of stone, all mighty men, all left handed, never missing their mark. I found these accounts pretty interesting and not at all insulting to lefties.
There's nothing ever mentioned about Satan being left or right handed. Any depiction of him as a lefty is simply an artist's rendition and not scriptural.
You would think, that in this day and age, people would have grown a brain. Yet, in other countries, the left hand is used solely to wipe oneself after using the john.
I would rather think the hands are partners, helpers of each other. We need them both. Having said that, I am proud to have the privilege of being left handed!
I never could understand why the left handed kids scooped their entire hand/wrist up over where they were to write.
Are there other people here who are ambidextrous and write the way I do?
I write with a correct slant, but it took me some time to get there. The paper should be slanted in the same direction your forearm is, with whichever hand you write! As a lefty, my paper slants this way / and so does my forearm, and my hand is NOT hooked. As a righty, it should slant \.
I love being ready, willing, and able to use both left and right hands for whatever comes up.
A 'natural' rightie who found out that being leftie worked out great for a variety of different tasks, depending on whatever goes on in my brain - works for me.
For instance: when painting - I use my right for broad strokes and for fine detail my left hand is used.
I sew/cut leftie - but screwdriver/hammer and that sort is based on whether a wall interfers.
I throw a ball leftie, golf rightie, bowl leftie. Batting a ball was either way, depending on the pitcher.
I write either hand but rightie is my legal signature; printing is neater with my left hand.
I used to be able to write two different things at the same time while using both hands.
Comb/brush hair leftie, brush teeth rightie. So??
I'm approaching 80 years old and can't think of any reason why anyone would consider me evil for any of these gifts.
Teachers who believe such nonsense do not belong in a school with children.
I am a biracial woman who had a white mother (Jewish & Irish) and a dark-skinned father who was British, Cherokee/Choctaw Native American and Jamaican. My mum straightened my natural curls for years..she didn't know what else to do. After years of fighting it with relaxers, I quit and embraced my curls since 2012.
To say that having straight hair is better than natural curly hair is just as ignorant and completely baseless. That is, unless the prejudice is directed at the woman with natural curls. Same thing with being left-handed. We've got to get rid of our archaic prejudices. I'm glad to be a lefty with natural curly hair. It makes me unique!
At age 4, I too, was forced to use my right hand. Often, my mom would defer to my ignorant father, exasperating the situation. Whenever she saw me coloring with crayons in my coloring book, she often discouraged me by slapping my left hand. As I grew older, it resulted in a sloppy and illegible right-handed script. I imagine my parents wanted me to "fit in" with other kids and not stand out. Whatever the reasons, they were wrong (I never wanted to fit in). Attempting to change the wiring of an obvious left-handed child, believing the lies that left-handedness is sinister/evil, wicked is discriminatory and unwarranted.
March 2017, my husband and I went ice skating. Before the rink closed, I attempted to get in one last lap. It ended with my legs and skates going out from under me, causing damage to my right arm and wrist. A visit to the hospital and orthopedic doctor confirmed a hairline fracture. It meant wearing a cast for several weeks, followed by a brace until it healed completely. In the meantime, I was completely dependent on my LEFT HAND. For EVERYTHING. I decided to undo [most of] the damage and became a southpaw again.
Has it been easy? Not with everything. Also, an amazing thing happened: In the mid-late 1970s, I decided to research my ancestry and found out the left-handed gene is on my dad's side of the family! What are the odds of 5 kids, 4 being lefties? Both my brothers and a sister are all lefties; only my younger sister in Brooklyn, NY is right-handed. Go figure.
In closing, the teacher should definitely be fired. She shouldn't be allowed to teach her stupid, outdated paradigms on her left handed students. It's positively Byzantine in this day & age. It's the way we're wired because the bias against us is prejudiced. We're not like the rest. I love being different that way and not like the rest of the right-handed meshuggas out there. Wake up world, we're not going anywhere!
During the course of the school year the teacher became ill and had to retire. The substitute teacher that took over had an open mind toward left-handedness and my life became much better.
This experience definitely left a mark on me that continues to raise my awareness of prejudice and coercion to this day.
Evil? The way the Christians burned at the stake anyone they deemed to be different. Or murdering Jews who refused to become Christian yet praying to a Jew.
Evil? The majority continually trying their best to destroy a tiny minority!
Sad that Jews were not allowed to do their own crafts!
I bowl lefty, golf righty, tennis serve is better/stronger lefty so I hold the racket lefty, too; catch a ball either hand but throw lefty so using a left handed mitt was tough.
When painting, right hand is used for palette knife but for miniature/fine details, I use my left hand.
I can also write with both hands at the same time - and used to be able to write two different things at the same time. Upside/down and backwards, too, along with mirror-imaging, which is fun to do.
All of this must mean I am more than evil. Hot dog!!
or quite talented. wink.
My mom knew bupkis about her ancestry so, I asked my bubbe. She mentioned how we Sephardic Jews were kicked out of Spain (by queen Isabella) because we refused to convert to Catholicism. It was convert, leave or be killed. They left, settling in Ireland for 300 years. Fearing for their lives, they set sail for Ellis Island, NY. While being processed as new immigrants, they were told to anglicize their last names (to avoid further persecution).
I am all of the above and also left-handed. I wasn't thrown a curve ball, rather, I was blessed by God and given a gift few people will ever experience. Comfortable in my own skin, never caring what others think, I'm proud of my rich heritage. That is not only being Jewish/Irish/Native American but being left-handed as well.
Is cursive writing still taught?? I thought it was being stopped in the USA.
If a right-handed child can be ambidextrous, so can a left-handed child.
For me, each hand has different chores - and most chores can be done with either hand.
I'm a happy camper.
Teachers can be great, its too bad there has to be a destructive teacher around.
Both of my maternal grandparents grew up in New Castle, a small mountain town in western Colorado. My grandmother's youngest sister, born circa 1910, was fully permitted by family and teachers to be left-handed. Similarly, my father's cousin, born in the late 1920s and raised in Houston, grew up left-handed with no real pushback from teachers.
Growing up as a lefty in west Los Angeles in the 1950s, about the only "problem" I ever encountered was a second-grade teacher who asked me to try briefly to write with my right hand. When I got home that day and asked my mother about the incident, she replied that the teacher probably just wanted to make sure I really was wired to be a lefty. No one ever tried to switch or "set me right," beyond an occasional "right arm on the wrong shoulder" joke.
Contrast this with the experience of two of my contemporaries who attended east coast Roman Catholic schools, where they were forced to switch hands. (Writing with the left hand reportedly earned the sting of a ruler slap across the back of the hand.) One of them did end up as a somewhat socially awkward stutterer.
The word "progressive" is always used in a positive sense, since it is a word that is based on "progress" which itself is a positive word. Regress, regressive, and regression are all negative terms.
This "sinister" idea, I believe, started in the middle ages when men would greet by shaking right hands to show they were not holding a weapon. Therefore, a leftie could prove to be a danger, because he could shake right-handed and still carry a weapon! What's under your cape????
There's a reason public education is, in general, crap.
If that happened to my child (who is left-handed)I would probably be in jail for smacking that idiot! I'm proud of my left-handed daughter!!!!
I am so sorry you are feeling sad,
Cos you think being left handed is "bad"
Some of the world's very best,
Have passed the left handed test,
Some very famous, have played guitars,
Many are musicians, artists, and movie stars,
Some are songwriters, singers, Princes and Kings,
And some Inventors of very clever things,
Being left handed, brings no shame,
In fact it may be your claim to fame.
To write with your left hand, is not wrong,
One day with that hand you may write a song,
Left handlers are clever and very smart,
Because they write with the hand closest to their heart.
Hope these words help the young left handed lad.
I learned the basis of writing in first grade but essentially taught myself how to write from 2nd grade forward.
Can any right-handed person on this planet give explanation for this article ?
Use this as an evidence against all people who are against Lefties. There is nothing called as good or bad that can be judged by a person's bodily characteristics. It is the inner attitude that matters a lot.
Why can't people understand this simple thing ?
Is it so difficult ?
Are all Righties thinking logically ? Are they at least carrying out their routine tasks normally using their right hand ?
In 1948 when I was about 5 or 6 I had my left hand ruler attacked every time I put my hand out for so a called present. They also tried tying my left hand to my back.
Now I have a deformed left thumb with a nail which needs to be trimmed every few days.
I have discovered that left handedness is an inherited trait that happens to almost every first born on my mother's side.
I am still lefthanded.
We cannot also make people do what we consider as "right". No pun intended.
This is down to the guidelines laid down by this particular state, not followed by this teacher. I also do not think this merits too much press as if it was widespread it would be in the news more often
Nowhere does it say the Devil is left handed, also Judges 3:15 refers to Ehud, a man called by God as being left handed.
However the fact the school took no action indicates they agree with her and I suspect the new teacher may take a similar line.
evil just because he or she is left handed, shouldn't be allowed to teach children, people like that are the evil ones!!!
change. I feel so bad for the mother of this little 4 year old boy, who was made to feel he was evil by a superstitious teacher. One can only infer this teacher to be a religious fanatic with a misplaced fervor for her religion. If her religion is Christianity, then she needs to repent because Jesus isn't into superstition, nor does He take kindly to those who attack His little ones! I think this teacher would do well to research all the wonderful left handed people who made great strides in medicine, music, invention, etc. she just might find herself to have benefited from many left handed people! there needs to be some kind of disciniplary action taken against her and a warning made to ALL teachers who wrongly believe left handed children are evil and who want to change a child's handedness.
The school should have sacked her immediately, Alisha remove your precious son from this school of hatred and sned him somewhere that his talent and potential will be realised not punished.
Regards,
Roland
Mind you, this was a Lutheran parochial school and not a model of progressive education.
Back then this was an adequate solution for the problem. Not now. This teacher should at least be counseled about her actions and be reminded to leave her religion at the door. Sadly nothing beneficial will come of this, Oklahoma is a place where backward looking beliefs and politics encourage such behaviors .
It does not say the Devil is left handed
She also has not read Judges 3:15 about Ehud, a man called by God, who was left handed.
I suspect the school agrees with this teacher as they did nothing to the teacher. I suspect if that boy goes to another class, they will still insist he becomes a right handed regular American.
they should be left alone. My parents taught me all my alphabet, etc.
before I went to school and the nuns had me help the other left-handed children. Our nun felt that trying to switch a child threw
0ff their coordination and reading skills. I thank her a lot.
Clearly one of those ubiquitous righties had decided that.
As a member of a family with many sinister people ( mother, sister, two of my three sons, nephews et al ), It might also be a cause for a high IQ. But perhaps that expecting too much!
Except for writing, I perform a given activity with whichever hand feels 'right.'
CORRECTION: THE WORD IS TRIED NOT TIED!!!!!
Poor little child.
In the UK, our Prime Minister and a future King are both left-handed.
I'm very lucky. I was brought up to be a natural left-hander. No attempt was made to stop me being left-handed at school. Whilst we didn't have equipment designed for left-handers, we were taught how to cope. My home is set up for left-handed use. All of my kitchen tools are left-handed and the layout is designed for the convenience of a left-hander.
If I'm responsible for a child, and she's being taught by a school teacher who can't even tell the difference between past and present tense, I'll pull her out of that classroom every time! The force-switching is over-the-top insult.
The handles are the same as right handed scissors. Adult left handed scissors lap the same way as right handed scissors but the handles are shaped for left handed use. If a child learns to control the kids' scissors, he will have trouble with adult scissors. Therefore I did not provide the left handed scissors to my students.
Luckily for me there was a left handed teacher in the building who had fallen in love with me because of what I was doing to the other teacher. The left handed teacher tried to get me into his class in 3rd grade so he could teach me the correct way of writing. Unfortunately he was unsuccessful.
I did save my brother who is also left handed from having to go through what I did even though he had the same teacher. Because of all of that I am ambidextrous with more tendencies for being left handed. I don't have that great of eye hand coordination because as a child I never knew what hand I was suppose to use. I got really good at mirror imaging to copy what someone else was doing.
Later we found out that my grandfather was switched from being left handed because he was told he would be burned at the stake if he didn't. And because of that he made sure is daughters were not left handed either but my mom writes and eats right handed and everything else is left.
Hang in there Jayde I know it's hard but your mom's doing the right thing for you.
I just have to say that I just moved to Iowa, USA and there are more left handers here than anywhere else I've ever been and of all ages.
Now at over 70 and living in Bangladesh, where left-handedness is not at all acceptable, I do not stammer/stutter but speak slowly which is appreciated by the local people. Every year I write about left-handedness in the local media.
Very sad to know that schoolteachers in USA are so uneducated.
Julian
Pretty frightening.
Anti-Leftyhandedness IS NOT in the bible!
This type of thinking is just human superstition, imposed on an existing religious background, attempting to justify it.
AGAIN, No where in the bible does it speak against left handedness.
Please check your facts before you spout venom.
When I was a 4 yr old I was beaten by the nuns to use my right hand
And nothing was done, but that was the 1950s I'm 68 now and still a lefty
But deaf from all the head beating's I got from the nuns.
She must think the devil is in the white house as he is black and a lefty.
All I can say is this teacher need's to be removed.
Some people are just too narrow minded to work with the public.
This is either a story of a very deluded teacher OR more likely just an "internet hoax".
Think about it is this really likely to be true in 2015 when just about every US president is left handed or perhaps that's it, must be some American that thinks Obama is sinister and evil??
I feel real bad for that boy I Oklahoma being forced to write right-handed.
That is totally archaic!
To Sinistral Squirrel - the book which serves them RIGHT!
He notes also that Paul McCartney strums his guitar sinistrally. If I understand it correctly, to be dextral is to be right-handed, to be sinistral is to be left-handed.
But there is nothing sinister about it...
thank you
kind regards
Miss Samantha Belshaw
Orenda, London, UK
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